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* Oh my, oh my,*

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* got a lot on my mind.*

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* Oh my, oh my,*

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* it's messy but it's mine.*

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* The Kouncil*

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[***]

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[Game show music]

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- Welcome back, folks.

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It's time to play another
game of the Kouncil Trivia.

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First question, how do you
get a guy not to ghost you?

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- Give him the old gorilla grip.

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- Disqualified.
Get out.

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- Infiltrate his family.

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Send him on an emotional
roller coaster.

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Bleed him dry financially
so he becomes fully invested.

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- Okay, next question.

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Fill in the blank.

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Someone who is single...

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- Doesn't give in
to societal standards

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and knows what they want?

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- Running through
those AAA batteries.

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Okay, them things are not cheap.

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- Hmm, I'd disqualify you both,

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but then I'd have
no more contestants.

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Last question, where does
confidence come from?

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- All right, can everyone
just shut up, please?

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Alana: Hey.

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- Hi.

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- Have we had a jump start
on applications today?

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- Yeah, I was just
working on them.

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- Good.
How was last night?

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- It was great.

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- See? Things are
looking up for you.

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I got more wine and then
we could order food

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and you can
tell me all about it.

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- Sure.

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- I also wanted
to tell you in person,

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I got the masters
and the mister after all.

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- Yeah.
This is amazing.

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-This is so exciting.
-Thank you.

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- That's amazing.

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- That's amazing.

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Great.
She's gone now, too.

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- Where are you
getting this from?

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- Oh, come on.

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You know when someone
gets married,

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all they have time for
is their husband.

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They're no longer
your best friend; he is.

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- Don't listen to her, okay?

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You know that's not true.

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Don't let her anger
get the best of us.

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Of you?
Of us?

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- It must be nice
to have it all.

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- Wait, you think I have it all?

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- Of course I do,

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and I think you're
rubbing it in our face.

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- I mean,
you're getting married,

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you just became a lawyer.

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Your life turned out perfect.

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- Katie, are you serious
right now?

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I like to share the good things
that are happening to me

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with you because
you're my best friend, okay?

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- But nothing good
is happening to me, you know?

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I can't keep a guy,

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I can't keep a job,
my life is shit.

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Your life keeps
getting better, okay?

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- You know, I actually work

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for the things that
I have in life, okay?

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So this little pity party
that you're throwing is shit.

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I can't believe you of all
people are jealous of me.

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-Jealous?
-Jealous?

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- Don't act like you
haven't been jealous of me

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our entire life.

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You had low self esteem,
you needed me to gas you up,

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and I'm jealous of you?

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Get fucking real.

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- I mean, when you're right,
you're right.

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- Oh, you have nothing to say?

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- Call me when you
get your shit together.

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You're a fucking mess.

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- Have fun
shopping for wedding dresses.

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- Why did you just do that?

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- I don't know, okay?

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Why did I listen to you?

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- Look, sometimes emotions
take over, all right?

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But we need to address...

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- Can everyone
just shut up, please?

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I'll be fine.

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I'm gonna keep on trucking
like I always do.

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I'm gonna get my money, I'm
gonna get my shit together.

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I'm fine.
I'm mentally stable as fuck!

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* Can finally say I made it,
tell 'em kiss the ring.*

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* They can't stop it, no.*

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Ma'am, like I've said before,
if you hit reset password,

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it will reset the password.

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No, ma'am, I cannot
reset the password.

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That is why it is called
reset your password.

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Okay, thank you for calling.

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[Exhales]

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[Groans]

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* He said, twerk some
for a real one. *

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* He wanna see that booty
jiggle and then some. *

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* It's the weekend, so you
know we got plenty time, *

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* put on a show, yeah,
baby girl, get in line. *

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Hey, Alex, it's me.

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Just checking in.

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Call me back
when you get a chance.

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Bye.

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Danny, hi.

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I could really use
a friend right now.

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Hi, Jake.

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This is your voicemail,
so you're probably busy.

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Hi, Jessica.

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Just seeing what you were doing.

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Okay, just call me back
whenever you get this.

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Bye.

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Hi, Christina.

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It's a beautiful night out.

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Maybe we want to go like
stargazing or something.

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Just, you know, wanted to
see if you wanted to go see

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like a movie or something.

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Haven't spoken in a while.

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Fourth grade was fun, huh?

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Yeah.

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Full moon, you know, we can
like charge our crystals

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under the sun or something.

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Or the moon.

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Good times, good times.

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Okay, just call me
back if you want.

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Okay, bye.

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Jackson: Katie, will you
please call me back?

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I've been trying
to call you for weeks.

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Look, I know I made a
mistake, but it meant nothing.

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Can we just be
mature about this?

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You can't always run
from your problems.

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- "The greater the gap between
the self image and reality,

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the more likely there is anxiety
and emotional disturbances."

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The greater the gap between
the self image and reality,

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the more likelihood
there is of anxiety

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and emotional disturbances.

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Holy shit.

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What is the reality?

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- Finally.
All right, let's get to work.

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So what is our
current self image?

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- That we're unworthy of love.

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- Okay, but why do we think
this?

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What evidence do we have?

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- Cuz we were ghosted.

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- Because Jackson cheated on us.

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- But how are those
things our fault, right?

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So this idea of being
unworthy of love

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started when Jackson
cheated, right?

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Stay with me.

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Anxiety flared up,
which caused Heart

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to get anxiously attached,
right?

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You got attached to this idea

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of Seth being
your white knight.

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And it put us in this
situation where Katie is now

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both the victim
and the villain.

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You took your pain out on
people who didn't cause it.

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- When Alana showed me her ring,
I'd never felt more alone.

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So I lashed out.

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And then Xavier was
just collateral damage

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for the men who hurt me.

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- Right, and in all of this,
can anyone tell me

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where is the self compassion,
right?

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You need to give
yourself some grace.

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- Oh, no.

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I feel like this domino effect
of bad decisions just turned me

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into someone
I don't even recognize.

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I'm not the type of girl
who uses men.

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I don't get jealous
of other people's success.

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- Yeah, and to bring it all
back to why we are here,

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does anybody
have any evidence

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that we are unlovable
or unworthy?

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- No.

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I am worthy.

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I am worthy.

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I'm a good person with
a compassionate heart.

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Yeah, and I'm proud of
my compassionate heart.

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- Look, you are worthy of love.

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We know this.

183
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But I like seeing you keep
your boundaries up, too.

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All right?

185
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We need to maintain
a certain standard still.

186
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So we just gotta be a little
bit smarter moving forward.

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- Yeah, and I'm not
gonna let idiot men

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ruin my perception of love.

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If they can't meet me there,

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then I'm not lowering
my standards.

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- Great.
Okay, what's next?

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Where do we go from here?

193
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- Well, we definitely have to
apologize to Alana and Xavier.

194
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And I actually need to start
sending in applications,

195
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but I don't think
I can fully move on

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until I talk to Jackson.

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- Let's do it.

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I'm ready whenever you are.

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[***]

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[Phone ringing]

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- But didn't he not answer
your text the other day?

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- Yeah, I know.
That's why I'm calling.

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He ain't got no caller I.D.

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Jackson: Hello?

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- Hey, Jackson, it's Katie.

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Jackson: Hey, Katie.

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What's... what's going on?

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- Can you meet me?

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* In the worst way,*

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* you got me

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trippin' today.*

212
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* And by the first taste,*

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* I should've never

214
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gone on to say...*

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[***]

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* Let me get you alone.*

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* I've got a little

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place of mine.*

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* Let me take you alone.*

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* There's gotta be

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a space and time.*

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* Let me take you alone.*

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* There's gotta be

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a space and time.*

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